Fight the hopeless and being hopeful.
Sure, everyone has a special own definition of success and for life, but we can agree it’s the achievement of determined goals in every phase in life. By another hand, there is the hopeless side of the life that most of the youth people, as a result, they feel not lucky and that all circumstance is coming to confront them, besides the unhelpful environment, I mean the society, the family, and friends.
From my own experience in the studies, job, social and volunteer activities, politics, relationship, friendship. I’ve learned a lot of lessons I would like to share some of them with you here in this article so that others can learn from it because what matters in this life is a bit of good advice and the right guideline who show you the mistake to avoid it along the path.
Everything is connected, don’t be worry or lose hope.
The first lesson I’ve learned is everything has a special meaning in life, every action, event even problems happened for a special reason and meaning and at a determined moment, because they are connected. what we focus right now, will impact the future result, by another means, when bad things happen while we are on the way to achieve the goal and we just think negatively and hopelessly, that impacts our energy and efficiency. The mistakes and the wrong things happened just to gives a signal about what our recent situation, to put us in strong land, because the success needs us to be strong and more determined, whatever happens, we keep connected to the positive energy and correct the mistakes and passing the challenges by the hope and positive energy to keep going to the ambitious.
The positivism is very important to embrace the power of positive thinking because the positive results come only from positive thoughts, and the positive thoughts gravitate the positive opportunities, nothing comes immediately, everything has a special moment to come, remember when you come to this life, you come in an exact minute, hour and day. It’s the same for the opportunities that you’re always feeling hopeless and wait to come as magic things without doing nothing. Just be ready then you will send a signal that you become an attractive person to get opportunities wherever are.
Be proactive
It’s necessary to be proactive to be successful, curious and engage in different events to get strong network, don’t wait for things to come to you, change won’t happen unless you make a change in your thoughts, whether in your personal life, professionally, in your relationships or recovery from your actual situation. What matters the difficulty of the goals you are looking to achieve in this life, the more important things are to keep seeking, and if you failed, remember it’s a signal to get a self-reflection what you can to do ? and where you want to achieve? what the skills and tools you have? and be careful between want and desire, there is a big distance because wanting is the situation of possibilities but the desire is strong has no limit, and always let you to compare your self with others. So follow what do you want? What you can do? and not follow others. At that moment, you can find answers, try to write it as a strategy to create change in your life.
In the end, when you cross this path and seeing the smallest shine from far away don’t forget to keep strong until you arrive, remember to stay hopeful. one last thing is trying always to be a giver at first at least a smile on the face, because who gives you this life, wants you to be strong and will never let you alone in your path, belief in Allah, stand up and go ahead forward your goals.
